The goal of hospice is not to cure. It is to keep the patient comfortable and pain-free, and help them make the most of the time they have left.

Here's what we recommend:

Find out your loved one's wishes. Locate your loved one's Will and read it to see if it clearly states their preferences regarding burial or cremation, organ donation, and details regarding their funeral.

Find out if they pre-planned their funeral—and if so, where. If there is no Will or other documents spelling these things out, and if your loved one is able to hold the discussion, gently talk to them about their preferences regarding these things.

Choose a mortuary. If your loved one did not already choose a mortuary during the pre-planning process, you will need to do so. Keep in mind that not all mortuaries provide the same level of services or have the same fees.

You'll need your loved one's, Veteran's discharge papers or Claim Number (if they are a veteran), Marital status, Social Security number, Birth date, City and state of birth, Parents' names, including mother's maiden name, Pre-arrangement paperwork (if they pre-arranged their funeral), Cemetery lot information (if it has already been purchased)